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Showing posts with label Jazzy Ghouse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jazzy Ghouse. Show all posts

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Jazzy Ghouse goes to UTD


I talked to Mina in the morning to hear an update about her school at 3:23 she texts me that she got accepted at UTD to do her Masters in criminology....


Another momentous day in my life, and here is what I wrote:


Way back in her high school, she watched every one of the NYPD shows, and I watched most of the shows with her. We had a deal with the TV time, that each one will take the turn and others will respect the turn. I have never liked more than one TV in the household; we even debated that on my radio show with Mina and Jeff. One TV keeps the family together, 2 TV’s breaks up the family. Anyway, she dreamt of becoming the counselor (Vietnamese Doctor) in the show. She went to junior academy at FBI and got her BS in psychology from UTD.

She has many names - I call her Mina most frequently, Jazzy when she is with her friends and Jasmina at times. Her Middle name is Dilshad, that is my sister’s name, when Mina was born, I was overwhelmed with her and affectionately gave her my sisters name as her middle name, so I can call her Dilshad once a while.

I am thrilled and simply overjoyed with her news! All I can think of is my father and mother who would have been so proud of my girl. They were determined to get their kids educated; my mother pulled me out of the field from becoming a farmer. My Dad passed 7th grade and mother 4th grade, but they were both ahead of their times; pluralistic in their attitudes and kind and gentle in demeanor. My Dad went on to become the Mayor of the town and mom a leader among the community.

By the way, she has made this on her own! She has her own goals... .. As a father, I encouraged her to be herself ... and her mother did the same. All we wanted her to do was to get a Degree and I wanted her to have a master’s degree. That’s gives everyone in my nucleus of family a Masters degree; Yasmeen; MBBS (MD), Jeff (MS and JD), Fern (MS), Mina (MS) and me an MBA and M.Com - I gave up on my PhD, Mina may pursue PhD. It’s my Dad’s dream come true!

My son did his BS and MS in Accounting and Finance from UTD, and a JD from SMU. My daughter in Law did her MS in Engineering from UTD. Wow, we are a UTD family. May be I should look to teach Management Accounting or Business management, or Pluralism in business and civil life.

Dad Ghouse

Monday, May 21, 2012

India bound - My kids go to India


Mina, Fern and Jeff Ghouse 

My kids Jeff and Mina and my daughter-in-law Fern left to India last night for a 15 day visit to Bangalore. My most important wish was for them to meet my mother, and both of them did just before she passed away twelve years ago.  My mother had learned a few words in English to communicate with them… what a reversal! 

My mother was an open minded pluralist woman with a big heart and an open mind. She was one of the most loved persons in the town.

Yesterday, I was beyond happiness that they chose to go on their own and spend time with their family.   It was a good feeling to see them off… I was lost for a fraction of a second, thinking I was to take them with me... heavens, they are adults – Jeff is a big time attorney, Fern is a big time research engineer and Mina just got her degree in Psychology… they are not kids any more. Get over it Mike!

It was an emotional realization that they are out of my bounds, although we affirmed it when they turned 18, I lost that for a moment… it was the same feeling, when I walked with my sister when she got married and left home with her husband for the first time… I was crying …walking on the railway platform in Yelahanka in January of 1970 and running along with the train until I could not keep up with it. I was sad.

But I was not crying today, I was happy that they are keeping connected with my family, Jeff and Fern have developed affinity with Tanveer and Tamanna (nephew and niece) and my brothers and in-laws, nieces and nephews – 10 of them in all. I hope Mina develops that relationship with her family as well, for her to go on her own…

Connecting with the families has its own rewards... it gives firm grounding in the moments of despair and joy.  I hope we get over our egos and find our base. There is peace in it.

Mike Ghouse