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Sunday, February 14, 2016

I Love America; Happy Valentine’s day

What a joy it is to sing songs about America while praying for other nations to be blessed like ours,  and live like us, which is live your life and let others live theirs. There is nothing like America.

Yasmeen and I were at Brazarios Restaurant in down town Louisville for the Valentine’s Day lunch. What I want to share is our conversation and what we saw around us, which I have captured to a little extent in the camera, though the pictures aren’t good, but you can see through them.

On the table to our right were African American Couples, two tables down was a white middle aged couple, and behind to the right of us were a Chinese Couple with a few Japanese with them, and one directly behind two tables was a gay couple and way to the right was a Jewish couple.

I can’t tell you the euphoric feeling to be in the midst of this environment. This is the America we all cherish and want to sustain.  Just 55 years ago, this would not have happened, none of this would have been possible. Thanks to Martin Luther King, John F Kennedy, Lyndon B Johnson and the majority of White Americas for uplifting America to be one of the most exemplary nations on the earth.  


Regardless of the rhetoric of a few (yes a few) men in the fore front, who are misogynists, homophobic, xenophobic, Islamophobic and anti-Semitic, America ain’t like them and a majority of American’s are like them either. The presidential candidates are not a representation of Americans.

America is a nation where we respect the otherness of others, and accept the God given uniqueness of each one of us whether we are Atheists, Baha’i, Buddhist, and Christian, Jain, Jewish, Muslims, Native Americans, Pagans, Sikhs, Wicca, Zoroastrians and every one in between.

It saddens me to see “a few” radicals among Hindus and Muslims, who are hell bent on  terrorizing or harassing the lovers in India and Pakistan, be it in a store or restaurant, let alone in the parks. I wish the heads of the states in both nations speak up and tell everyone that they will not tolerate harassing and terrorizing fellow countrymen for celebrating Valentine’s day. Here is a note for them at www.TheGhousediary.com or www.Interfaithspeaker.com

I also appeal to a few religious parents in America not to put down our culture, you can tell your kids that Valentine’s day is not a part of your tradition, but you cannot put it down, as their friends do celebrate and your kids don’t see anything wrong with the celebration.  If you oppose them, you are pushing them to live two lives – one a pretentious life with you and the other with their friends and that is wrong. You have a choice to raise them in another country where they live their lives in silos. No one should live two lives and it is not good for them or you.

Next year, if I am alive, we will have discussions within the ethnic and religious groups who are yet to integrate in our society.  Meanwhile, enjoy my current article at www.TheGhouseDiary.com

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Dr. Mike Ghouse is a community consultant, social scientist, thinker, writer, news maker, and a speaker on Pluralism, Interfaith, Islam, politics, terrorism, human rights, India, Israel-Palestine and foreign policy. He is committed to building cohesive societies and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. Visit him in 63 links at www.MikeGhouse.net for his writings at TheGhousediary.com and several blogs listed there in.

Monday, July 8, 2013

Vacationing in Jamaica is good, very good indeed.

It is good to be here, good people, great service and simply a good experience vacationing. We've been here for three days now, and it's nothing but good experience and relaxation. It's the friendliness and willingness of the people to serve that makes Jamaica a great spot for vacationing!


More pictures: http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeghouse/sets/72157634552811985/show

Coyaba Resort in Montego Bay sits right on the ocean, and our room was a stone's throw from the beach - additionally they have built a ramp that goes about 500' feet into the ocean with a place to sit...right in the middle of nowhere... With the waves making that consistent musical beat. Yasmeen and I sat there last night for a good two hours gazing into the darkness, the stars and the sky...and I watched the sunrise enjoying the early morning breeze on my face... Heavens, from the ramp, you can enjoy the sunset and sunrise equally with no obstruction.
Roy, the tour guide drove us over the hills,...sugar plantations, and little hamlets... On the way, we stopped and ate the fruits I've not had in years... Jack fruit, little bananas, fresh coconuts and other fruits... Ate at the local restaurant, and the food was delicious...... jerk chicken was a disappointment, curried goat was alight. I will stick to the grilled food, we cannot go wrong with it. Top three foods of Jamaica - Jerk Chicken, Curried Goat and Oxtail. I am glad we tasted all the foods out there, but was not moved by any, there is no desire to seek that food. 

Of course, we carried great conversation with Roy about everything on earth from religion to politics to cricket to pluralism and gay and lesbian issues. I will write a separate note about it.. he was incredibly conservative but believed in one's freedom a right to his or her pursuit of happiness. You always learn from a healthy conversation where knowledge is learned and exchanged without judgments.

On the other hand, we went to dinner in a cab, and that conversation was a difficult one - he was down on Rastafarians ( a tradition of its own) and I made my effort for him to consider and respect different beliefs, he was very set in his mind, he hated Muslims, but did not have any personal experience with any Muslims, all he was going was by what he reads in the papers. I did my mitigation and long pauses to understand the whole gamut of the problem... and it would take a lot of work and a lot of sharing and caring... I have to do my work, Gandhi has said that to me twice (in my dreams) that every human should value the other.
I don't think any one should miss Negril beach... The sand is soft and powdery...It's like walking on cushion... One of the most beautiful beaches with every possible sports activity..... We took a glass bottom boat... That took us a good 1000 feet into the ocean to see the reef and the fish... We could have walked .. The water was no more than 5' high...
We really resisted the stupidest thing of all : shopping, and I am thrilled to no end that she believes shopping is best in America.
It was good to be here, good people, great service and simply relaxing.
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Mike Ghouse is a speaker, thinker and a writer on pluralism
, politics, peace, Islam, Israel, India, interfaith, and cohesion at work place. He is committed to building a Cohesive America and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day at www.TheGhousediary.com. He believes in Standing up for others and has done that throughout his life as an activist. Mike has a presence on national and local TV, Radio and Print Media. He is a frequent guest on Sean Hannity show on Fox TV, and a commentator on national radio networks, he contributes weekly to the Texas Faith Column at Dallas Morning News; fortnightly at Huffington post; and several other periodicals across the world. His personal site www.MikeGhouse.net indexes all his work through many links.